Welcome!

It's nice to meet you. I am so glad you are here. My name is Renée Yvonne. You are most likely here because you are a Gen Xer or Baby Boomer who is realizing that sex is not the same as it was in your 20s and 30s and you aren't sure what to do about it. 

You have probably been watching YouTube videos or following people on social media for sex advice but not seeing enough content that deals with sex after menopause, erectile dysfunction, sexless relationships, sex while in physical pain, etc. Instead you are seeing lots about how to give blow jobs or how to get into sexual positions that seem nearly impossible. You need something different! And that's where I come in.

My name is Renée Yvonne and I am The Gen SeXologist.  I'm a Gen Xer and I'm a certified sex coach and counselor. I realized that Gen X has been forgotten because we're squished between millennials and baby boomers. 

I help passionate Gen Xers and Baby Boomers reignite sexless relationships and navigate health and medical issues that negatively affect sexual performance so they can create an exhilarating sex life and become the fullest expression of who they are sexually.


We're the ones who are raising kids and taking care of elder parents. We may have adult kids and an empty nest and trying to figure out if we still like let alone love the person we married 20 years ago. We may be getting divorced after 15 years of marriage and discovering we have no idea how to date in this online dating world.

We are the generation that could have sex all night and now we just want to sleep all night. You get physically mad when someone asks you to go out after 8 pm.  You may still want to have sex but your body may not be able to do the things it used to do. You can't do acrobatic sex like put your legs behind your ears. Riding him is killing your knees. You are tired after working a 10 hour day. You are both working from home and now see each other more than you want to but you are willing to put in 8 good mind-blowing minutes into sex.

And no one is talking about that.

Until now.

I'm talking about it. And I want to talk about it with you. 

If you are new here, great! I have found that people say one of the barriers to great sex is the fear of talking about it with their partner. They don't want to hurt their feelings so they keep quiet and suffer through less than pleasurable sex. And no one should do that. If this is you, start here and click the button below to grab your copy of How to Tell Your Partner What You Want in Bed and Not Hurt Their Feelings

These exercises will help you communicate your needs and desires to your partner so you can experience the pleasure you deserve.

Click here for How to Tell Your Partner What You Want in Bed and Not Hurt Their Feelings

This is the guide for you if

  • You're a Gen Xer or Baby Boomer
  • You're beginning to date again
  • You have been in a relationship for awhile but the sex isn't as enjoyable as it used to be
  • You're in a relationship sexual rut 
  • You want more pleasure in your relationship and you don't know how to say that to your partner without feeling like it will hurt them