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4 Simple Ways to Incorporate Kink into Your S3x Play

Hi everyone. It's Renee Yvonne, The Gen Sexologist. And I'm coming to you today. I wanna talk about a little bit about kink and shame, and then I wanna end with giving you four things you can do to add to your relationship, to spice it up a little bit and make it a little bit more exciting. So I don't know if you've seen this show killing Eve. I've only seen the first season. So I don't, I can only go with this, but this got me to thinking about why I need to do this video today. So I was watc…

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4 Ways to Stimulate the Clitoris that Don't Involve Rubbing it Like a DJ on a Turntable

Hi Everyone. It's Renee Yvonne, The Gen Sexologist. And welcome back. So this week I want to talk about a topic that we need to talk about. Okay. and I think it's important that we have this topic. So recently I'm just gonna be vulnerable. Say in the past I was with someone who began to finger me and said, oh, let me hit that clit in my vaginal canal. As a sex counselor, I had to stop because I can't just let this go on like this. And I believe that I'm doing the Lord's work. So I need to educ…

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How to Be A Better Lover

Hello everyone. It's Renee Yvonne, The Gen Sexologist. And today I wanna talk a little bit about what makes a good lover, you know, as we get older, we may be thinking differently about what makes a good lover. Like in our younger years, it may have been how long we could of sex, or it could be the, you know, it could feel like the length of your penis or how wet you get all of these physical things. We tend to put a lot of emphasis on when it comes to being a good lover, some technique that y…

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Sexy New Goals to Try in 2022

 

Happy New Year and Welcome to 2022. It's been a rough year (or two) for many of us but we have made it to the new year. 

I am not a big fan of resolutions but I do think there should be some new goals that you want to reach or new things you want to try. So this week, I am giving you three new sexy goals for you to try in 2022. Check out the video below.

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These Are a Few of My Favorite Things

Hello, everyone. It's been a few weeks. I know it has been super busy, so let's get to it today. I wanna talk about some of my favorite things. It's that time of year. My favorite Christmas song is My Favorite Things. I'm not really sure why that's a Christmas song because it really doesn't anything to do with Christmas, but I just love that song. It's just my absolute favorite Christmas song. Anyway, so I thought in honor of that, I would share with you some of my favorite things that you can…

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5 Myths About S.ex that We Believe But Aren't True

 

And it's Renee Yvonne, The Gen Sexologist and today I want to talk to you about five myths that have been going around about sex and sexuality that just simply aren't true. So this comes from, if you've been, been on Facebook or any social media for a while, you will see a lot of interesting things floating around, not just sex, but a lot of myths that are just floating around and make you go, "hmm. I wonder where they got that from and who taught them that little bit of information that is…

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6 Ways Your Vagina and Vulva Change As You Get Older

Hi everyone. It's Renee Yvonne, the Gen Sexologist, and I am here today to talk about something that I don't think we talk about enough. And even though I'm the Gen Sexologist and I'm working with people who are 45 and up, and we're going through a lot of changes in our bodies, we still aren't talking about a lot of the things that are changes in our body. So today I want to talk about what happens to your vagina and vulva as you age. Now, this came up because a little while back I was at dinn…

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How to Get Out of a Sexual Rut

Hi everyone. It's Renee Yvonne, The Gen Sexologist. And today I want to talk a little bit about getting out of sexual ruts. So I get this question a lot. Sometimes people have been in a relationship for a while. Things have gotten a little stale. They want to figure out how to spice things out. What can we do? Or maybe you're in a newer relationship and it's already kind of like, this is, this is kinda dead. It's only been two weeks. So what can you do to spice things up and make things a litt…

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How to Spice Up Your Sex Life This Fall

 

Hi everyone. It's ReneeYvonne, The Gen Sexologist. And I'm back. I missed you guys. So today I want to talk a little bit about spicing things up when things have gotten a little stale in the bedroom. And although I am no expert on BDSM, that's not my specialty. I think that you could still begin to play around with some things. If you're thinking about, I just want to bring in something a little different to what's going on in our bedroom right now, or kitchen or car, wherever you are. Okay…

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Top 5 Sex Drive Killers and What to do About Them

 

Hey everyone. It's Renee Yvonne, The Gen Sexologist. And I know I haven't been around for a couple of weeks. I don't even have an excuse to give you, I just haven't recorded anything, but I'm back. So yay. So today I want to talk about some things or what I call the five sex drive killers. And this came about because I just recently had my annual physical and my blood work came back. And my doctor said that my A1C was a little high and she was ready to put me on diabetes medication. And fro…

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