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5 Myths About S.ex that We Believe But Aren't True

 

And it's Renee Yvonne, The Gen Sexologist and today I want to talk to you about five myths that have been going around about sex and sexuality that just simply aren't true. So this comes from, if you've been, been on Facebook or any social media for a while, you will see a lot of interesting things floating around, not just sex, but a lot of myths that are just floating around and make you go, "hmm. I wonder where they got that from and who taught them that little bit of information that is…

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6 Ways Your Vagina and Vulva Change As You Get Older

Hi everyone. It's Renee Yvonne, the Gen Sexologist, and I am here today to talk about something that I don't think we talk about enough. And even though I'm the Gen Sexologist and I'm working with people who are 45 and up, and we're going through a lot of changes in our bodies, we still aren't talking about a lot of the things that are changes in our body. So today I want to talk about what happens to your vagina and vulva as you age. Now, this came up because a little while back I was at dinn…

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How to Get Out of a Sexual Rut

Hi everyone. It's Renee Yvonne, The Gen Sexologist. And today I want to talk a little bit about getting out of sexual ruts. So I get this question a lot. Sometimes people have been in a relationship for a while. Things have gotten a little stale. They want to figure out how to spice things out. What can we do? Or maybe you're in a newer relationship and it's already kind of like, this is, this is kinda dead. It's only been two weeks. So what can you do to spice things up and make things a litt…

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How to Spice Up Your Sex Life This Fall

 

Hi everyone. It's ReneeYvonne, The Gen Sexologist. And I'm back. I missed you guys. So today I want to talk a little bit about spicing things up when things have gotten a little stale in the bedroom. And although I am no expert on BDSM, that's not my specialty. I think that you could still begin to play around with some things. If you're thinking about, I just want to bring in something a little different to what's going on in our bedroom right now, or kitchen or car, wherever you are. Okay…

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Top 5 Sex Drive Killers and What to do About Them

 

Hey everyone. It's Renee Yvonne, The Gen Sexologist. And I know I haven't been around for a couple of weeks. I don't even have an excuse to give you, I just haven't recorded anything, but I'm back. So yay. So today I want to talk about some things or what I call the five sex drive killers. And this came about because I just recently had my annual physical and my blood work came back. And my doctor said that my A1C was a little high and she was ready to put me on diabetes medication. And fro…

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How To Work with a Smaller Penis

Hey everybody. It's Renee Yvonne, the Gen Sexologist. And welcome. So this is September and September is traditionally sex education or sexual health education month. So I've been getting a lot of different questions. And so I thought this month, I'll just take the time to answer some of them. One of the questions I received this month was what do you do when you're with a partner who has a smaller penis? And I think this is a great question, because sometimes that happens, right? Everyone isn…

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6 Myths About Anal Sex Debunked

 

Hey everyone. It's Renee Yvonne, The Gen Sexologist. And you know what, it's August. And I know we're in the middle of it, but August is Anal Awareness Month. I bet you didn't know that. I just found out. So that's why I'm excited to share some things with you. So one of the things I learned during the pandemic from a colleague of mine that owns an adult store here in DC, is that during the pandemic, she was surprised by how many people were looking for, butt stuff, as she calls it, people …

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What You Need to Know About Spontaneous Desire vs Responsive Desire

Hi, everyone It's Renée Yvonne The Gen Sexologist. And this week I want to talk about something that couples bring up quite often. And that is desire that sometimes someone in the partnership will say, my partner just doesn't seem to desire me anymore. And that MAY be true, but I want to talk about the fact that there are two different types of desires and maybe what's happening is that your partner has a different type of desire than you expect them to have. So for instance, what if you come …

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Use These 3 Things to Give Him a BJ He Won't Forget

Hi everyone. It's Renée Yvonne , The Gen Sexologist. And welcome! So glad you're here today. Today, I want to talk about how to give a better blow job. Now, sometimes you can get into a rut with a blow job. Let's be honest, you're down there. You're sucking them. You're just your jaws hurt. You're tired. Don't you know, whatever, but let's, we can make it a little bit more exciting. So let's talk a little bit about how we can make it a little bit more exciting for both you and for him. So one …

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