I was in a workshop a few weeks ago and heard the speaker say that we should not talk about sex in bed.

And I went...

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Why not? Isn't this where sex is happening? Now don't get me wrong, if you want to open your relationship or begin swinging, talking about that in the middle of sex may not be the way to go. But let's say he is fingering you like a DJ spinning a record and you want it to stop, then waiting until you are having brunch at Matchbox won't help you now. You will end up suffering through sex and wishing he would just end it so you can go finish searching for Tik Tok videos you were watching before you came to bed.

You don't have to have a full-blown conversation, just try this tip I mention in the video below to have the sex you really want.