6 Ways Women Can Experience Intense, Incredible Orgasms

Hey everyone. It's Renée Yvonne, The Gen Sexologist, and it's still Sex Ed Month. So this week I want to talk a little bit about various types of orgasms that women can have. And this is something that you've probably seen in Cosmo or a magazine like that that will give you a list of things. But I want to talk about a few of the most common ones that we have.

So the first one is the clitoral orgasm. Most women can orgasm that way. And one of the things that you do in order to have a clitoral, orgasm, is to stimulate the clitoris right? And the clitoris is the only organ in the body that is purely designed for pleasure. It has no other purpose. So as, as a vulva owner, you are designed to experience an extreme amount of pleasure. So how awesome is that? That it's totally there just for pleasure. So what are the things that you can do? And I want to show toys because, you know, I love toys is the Womanizer Starlet. And this is a clitoral suction toy. As you can see, there's a little hole there when you turn it on, it has four vibrations and it just kind of like, like sucks right there on the clitoris. And it allows you to have an orgasm. And typically under, I would say under five minutes, depending on how sensitive you are, it has four different speeds on the back and it is rechargeable because you all know, I love rechargeable toys. So this is one that you can try to help with a clitoral orgasm.

The second type of orgasm that women experience is a vaginal orgasm. Now this is sometimes less common for some women and for some women, this is the way that they typically reach orgasm. And so a vaginal orgasm can be achieved by using some G-spot. You can use a penetrative device, like a or a G-spot orgasm, G-spot vibrator to help achieve this type of orgasm. And so one of the toys that you can use for that is the We-Vibe Nova 2. I've talked about this toy before. One of the things I like about it is that it curves to your body, as you can see. So depending on where it needs to hit in your body, you can adjust that and this can adjust to hit the clitoris as well. So a lot of people that achieve a vaginal orgasm often need some stimulation there, as well as some clitoral stimulation. The other nice thing about this vibrator, that it has two different motors. So there's a motor here and there's a motor in this part and it comes with an app. So you can set the app and it'll do different vibrations to the app. So you can get, have your partner, have the app, and they can control the vibrations that you feel on this. So this is the We-Vibe Nova 2, to help you achieve vaginal orgasms.

The third one is a blended orgasm. And as you can guess, this is a combination of a clitoral and vaginal G-spot orgasm. So one of the toys that's great for this. You may remember Tracy's Dog. This was on Amazon. It was reviewed, it was hilarious a couple of years ago, this has the clitoral stimulation part. So it's like sucks on the clitoris and it has the G-spot part with the ridges on it. I would definitely consider using a lot of lube with this one, cause it cause it's kinda large depending on how big your vaginal opening is, but this can help you with, to achieve a blended orgasm of both the clitoris and the vagina.

Some women can experience a cervical orgasm. And in order to do that, you need to go a little bit deeper in and then hit on the cervix. Now, this can be achieved by a well-endowed partner who can actually hit the cervix with their penis or, or if you're using yeah, with their penis or you can use glass dildo. It works really well for this. This is by I believe icicles and they make, they just make beautiful. These are just beautiful. They just make a lot of beautiful artistic looking. You can also use this with temperature play. So you can put this in the refrigerator, get it cold, heat it up a little bit in boiling water and get it warm. And then you can have different. It will feel different inside of you, but you can use this to reach the cervix and have a cervical orgasm.

And last but not least, and this is one that a lot of people may like actually, and then some people might go, oh no, that's okay. Really? I'm good with that. But the last one I'm going to talk about is an anal vibrating plug. And you want to make sure that when you put anything in the anus, that it has a flared bottom like this, because as I just, I just heard this saying yesterday, the vagina is a cul-de-sac the anus is a highway. So you can't lose things in your vagina. It's only two to four inches long, so it will come out. But the anus will, is connected to the intestines. And so you can put something in there and lose it. So you want to make sure it has a flared tip. That's my whole point here. So you have a flare tip, use a lot of lube with the anus. The anus is not self-lubricating, but this vibrates and for some people, this is an exquisite feeling. There's a lot of nerve endings in the anus. And you may want to try this with a clitoral vibrator, or you may want to try it with the G-spot one. You may want to try it with a dildo and kind of have a really blended one, but have orgasms in all parts of your body. So this is the only toy that I recommend I think one of the few I recommend that is battery operated. But there are definitely rechargeable ones on the market. I just happened to have a battery-operated one, and I will tell you the batteries, die fast. So but this is a nice one with a lot of lube, you can use this to achieve an anal orgasm.

So sharing those, those types of orgasms with you and there are others that you will find, I've heard of coregasms people that can have orgasms from exercising. I have never experienced that. There are nipple orgasms. I should have talked about that. So nipple orgasms can be achieved actually in a couple of ways. So if you, you can just do breast play with your own hands or someone else can massage them, but you can also use the clitoral sucking vibrators on your nipples. And they feel really good because it's the same kind of suction. So you can use one like this on it, or you may choose to do something like have nipple clamps. I hate to call them clamps, but that's what they, what they are. These aren't really clamps more nipple jewelry, but you can have something like this, that clamps around the nipple and they provide a sensation. And so they don't really hurt. They don't hurt or anything, but they, what they do is they restrict blood flow. And then when you take them off and so like all the blushing blood rushes there. And so it makes the nipples more erect and you'll have more sensitivity and feeling in them. So something like this is cute. These are from a company on Etsy called Why Bee Normal. And they make a lot of clitoral jewelry and nipple jewelry. So I really liked them. They just make really cute stuff. So that's something else you may want to try is having a nipple orgasm. And you can do that again with hands, with someone else's hands with a toy and with tongue Oregon with some kind of jewelry, something like that. So those are the types of orgasms. So I hope you go out and try one this month, see, you know, play around and see what kind of orgasm that you can have, because if you've always done clitoral, it's kind of cool to try out something new to see can I have an orgasm this way? And one of the ways that you can help assist in having an orgasm is to breathe. So one of the things you want to do throughout, whatever type of, of sex play that you're having is to take the time to just inhale to a count of three and then make a sound when you breathe out or whatever sound, but make a sound and move that energy in and out of your body. And you will see that the orgasms are more intense. They are more pleasurable. And so try that to the next time that you are in sex play, using a toy, and try a new one out and see if that doesn't help and help you achieve pleasure in a different way. This is particularly important if you're in a relationship where maybe you're not having as much intercourse you like, or perhaps you're in a sexless relationship, it's great to start out with something like this and to experience pleasure in a different way. And then you can move into more intercourse because we can experience pleasure in a lot of ways. So I want to share that with you so that you get to try those things out. In the meantime, if you have any questions, please feel free to email me at Renee@thegensexologist.com or join me in my Facebook group. Gen X-ers Talk About Sex and you could just search for that in Facebook is a couple of questions you have to answer to join. It's a private group and I will let you in, and we can continue talking about all things like this in the meantime, have a great week and I'll see you next week. Bye.

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